Susan's last comment echo'd exactly what I was thinking. Have mom go to another LC (who you know is good) and you be her friend and cheering section. I also agree that she needs to find time to pump, maybe needs to be using an SNS for a bit. Maybe as the friend you can watch her kids at your house and/or provide some meals or organize other friends to also provide meals to get her over this hump. Pat in SNJ, USA *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html To reach list owners: [log in to unmask] Mail all list management commands to: [log in to unmask] COMMANDS: 1. To temporarily stop your subscription write in the body of an email: set lactnet nomail 2. To start it again: set lactnet mail 3. To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet 4. To get a comprehensive list of rules and directions: get lactnet welcome