Yep, meee toooo! And when newly adopted children, especially those with a very rotten start or profound neglect, don't have at least one full time parent on hand it's a bad thing! Now if she were pumping to express milk to bottle or sippy cup feed the boys once a day then I'd be happier....I'm not adverse to food provision as a bonding tool, it often works with kids that have been badly hurt. Karleen Gribble Australia Two adopted boys who are adjusting to life in a new country and to a new baby after a "rough start" need far more than a bottle to feed to a newborn sibling. I'm sure my husband could fill up pages about what would be far better alternatives to this approach. But, the marketing will work because who doesn't want to see the lovely picture of these two salvaged boys have a new start and chance snuggled up closely with the new baby feeding it? This firmly reinforces what I think is a bad message "that you bond through food". *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html To reach list owners: [log in to unmask] Mail all list management commands to: [log in to unmask] COMMANDS: 1. To temporarily stop your subscription write in the body of an email: set lactnet nomail 2. To start it again: set lactnet mail 3. To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet 4. To get a comprehensive list of rules and directions: get lactnet welcome