I am working with a woman, and because she was told I could "make a man nurse," i feel a little bit pressured:) Baby was born with no complications, mom reports no medical history, no problems getting pregnant. the first day i met them, the baby sat there with the nipple at his lips and would not latch; just sat there, didn't fight it but would not be tempted. So, She finger fed for a week. Now, he latches pretty well, but only with a shield. Ok. There are worse things. But she is not making milk, and i can't figure out why. Normal puberty growth, normal development in pregnancy, early and frequent breastfeeding after birth. She is taking goat's rue and fenugreek, and she noticed a little improvement, but not much. A great pumping, which i know isn't always indicative, only produces about an ounce. She is small breasted, but they are symmetrical and round, and I have seen women who appear "flat" (and i remember one baby who was choking and sputtering and tummy hard as a rock after about five minutes eating because his mom had soooo much milk, and she really didn't look like she had any storage capacity) but produce plenty of milk. She has some skin discoloration, like some pigment is missing, her areolas are lighter than her breasts but she reports no health problems. One thing she mentioned last night, though her two sisters nurse with no problem, her mother tried with the first two, but reportedly never had enough and didn't try with the rest. Am I missing something? *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html To reach list owners: [log in to unmask] Mail all list management commands to: [log in to unmask] COMMANDS: 1. To temporarily stop your subscription write in the body of an email: set lactnet nomail 2. To start it again: set lactnet mail 3. To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet 4. To get a comprehensive list of rules and directions: get lactnet welcome