Phyllis said: >So the thought hit me: maybe this is just what moms need to do on occasion >when they are out in public >nursing their babies - look directly at the >lookers, and smile. This is exactly what I've done and encouraged the mothers I teach to do - look directly at anyone who looks at you and smile. Those who are just disapproving will look away immediately - people don't like to be caught staring, while those who are admiring you will smile back. Works wonderfully! Melanie Melanie Young, IBCLC LLL of Johnston County, NC USA *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html Mail all commands to [log in to unmask] To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or [log in to unmask]) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet or ([log in to unmask]) To reach list owners: [log in to unmask]