Dear Karen: You said this baby weighed 5 lbs, 8 oz. at 38 weeks. That's a bit small. From your description, I wonder if there was any trauma to this baby in utero? E.G., was it a botched abortion? Was it a planned pregnancy? Did the mom have unusual amount of stress? Violence in the home? Was it a multiple pregnancy that turned into a single pregnancy? Were there any complications/medications given during the pregnancy? Were there any problems immediately following the birth? Vigorous suctioning? Separation from mom? Any of these things could explain this baby's apparent lack of will to live. Has anyone looked carefully at the bubble palate? Is it painful for her to swallow? Does she have adequate air flow through her nostrils when eating? Has she been seen by a speech language pathologist to rule out a swallowing disorder? I know a lot of these questions were probably already asked, but it's important to see the whole picture when there doesn't seem to be a physical reason for not eating. Terri Lear, BA, IBCLC Breastfeeding Solutions, LLC 703-313-0040 *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(R) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html