In a message dated 96-11-21 11:28:18 EST, you write:

<<  If we
 cannot get Joey back on her breast, she is considering weaning both of them
 because she is afraid of how her relationship would be affected.  She does
 say that Joey is much happier with bottles.  I was fearing breast aversion
 with him, being forced on like she had to do to avoid more trauma.
 >>
Chris:

  unfortunately, life is neighter fair nor equatable... we do not give
egqually to our children as they and their needs are different... life is not
equal...

   while not perfect ( tis not a perfect world) bf one and providing bm for
the other may be an equatable compromise.. they both get some plusses... if
the one is happier with a bottle well... better he should get bm than abm...

         Patricia