I mostly "lurk". This topic though I have. followed very closely and must agree with Ms. Riedel. Our task, should we choose to accept it, I feel is to be the advocate of the dyad.
Perhaps we use our knowledge and experience to "sway" opinions at times, yes, but it must always be what is truly best for the family, not our political and heartfelt "agenda".
Much warmth
Andrea Syms-Brown. IBCLC,CIMI
New York City.
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-----Original Message-----
From: "Betsy Riedel,RNC,IBCLC" <[log in to unmask]>
Date: Mon, 11 Sep 2006 15:50:54
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Subject: pumping, breastfeeding,etc
I have the feeling from some of the recent posts that some of us LC's who
sometimes have to rely on pumps for our mothers(for whatever the reason),
temporary or permanent bottle feeding, encourage breastmilk in a bottle
talk about babies being efficient,etc., are being looked at with a
critical eye.
Personally, I will do whatever it takes to get breastmilk into a baby, no
matter what the amount. There are mothers out there who are just plain NO
T
AS COMMITTED to providing breastmilk as some of the rest us are or have
been when our kids were small.
Let's take Mom and baby where they are and give them what THEY need; NOT
what WE think they need.
I guess I feel this way because as I scan all of the posts relating to
this particular topic, I see the "us vs. them" mentality rearing its ugly
head here.
Sometimes, we all have to step away from what the studies say and just go
with what the mother needs. This is all about them, NOT all about us.
Betsy Riedel RNC, IBCLC
Connecticut
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