In a message dated 96-12-02 00:02:14 EST, you write:

<< I don't think it's a good idea to suggest a gigantic book to a woman who
feels she is in a crisis.
  Nofia >>
I'm a few days late reading posts but I agree with you, Nofia.  The original
poster asked about helping via email and I suggested LCs, LLL, and books.
You're right if it is a "terrible bf problem" which I didn't realize was how
she described the crisis, then the mom needs an LC or an MD, IMHO, and no
book will do.  But in general you can also suggest a good book for them to
have on hand anyways.  Your suggestions are good ones. I also like Womanly
Art and Nursing Mother's Companion.
Respectfully,
Laurie Wheeler, rnc, mn, ibclc
louisiana