Heidi - my sympathies.  But you might find this interesting.  Client a while
ago nursing young baby who had bad "colic", screamed and screamed,
especially after breastfeeding, mother was doing everything she could think
of to keep baby happy and nothing worked.  Mother was drinking a lot of
milk, so we discussed eliminating all bovine proteins for two weeks to see
what happened.  Sure enough, after the two weeks was up the baby became calm
and gorgeous and "a different baby".  She decided to stay off the dairy
products. Several months later the mum wrote me such a sweet letter saying
she couldn't thank me enough - she'd had an unexpected bonus - she'd had bad
acne from the age of 12 and now, for the first time in her life it had
disappeared.  This mother taught me a lot.

Pamela, Zimbabwe