I am prepared to dodge any flames that are thrown at me for this, but... I am and IBCLC, and I have 4 kids. They ALL either used a paci or sucked their fingers or thumbs. My husband and I both sucked our thumbs until we were 9+ years of age.  All 4 of my kids breastfed for 1 1/2 - 2 1/2 years.  I hate pacifier bashing. Yes they can be over-used, and yes they can cause problems with oral development (tho not in my case... they actually helped). Being a mom who suffered from significant PPMD's I could have potentially caused myself or my child harm if pacifiers didn't exist. I am a much calmer mommy when my daughter is sucking happily on her binky instead of screaming.  They are a parenting choice - and believe me, there are MUCH worse choices that parents can make.  Long Live the BINKY!

Angela Leonard, IBCLC
West Chester PA

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