These quotes from the story tell it all:

"The Ezzos' program kept us in a constant state of conflict with our
children, even when they were behaving well, because we could never just
relax with them."
and
"We began to see that we were inadvertently teaching him that when someone
cries, especially if they are smaller and weaker than yourself, you ignore
their distress unless it's convenient for you."

I am sad for this mom--the time she lost with her babies--but admire her
greatly for her God-given common sense that helped her to see her way out of
the Ezzo morass.

Diane, LLL
Florence, VT

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