In einer eMail vom 05-09-02 21:12:00 West-Europa (zomertijd) schreibt
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> The best advice I got when I was becoming a LLLLeader was, "A mom has to
> *want* to breastfeed and meet you halfway in her efforts.  You can't do all
> the *wanting* for her."
>

This is like a saying of  in my family: you can't help soeone who does not
want to be helped''
When we focus on the ones who not only need the help, but also actively seek
it -perhaps with a little guidance as where to look for it- I think we still
will have lots to do.
Warmly greeting,

Gonneke
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Gonneke van Veldhuizen
IBCLC   ---|||---   LLLL   ---|||---   MOM
primairy schoolteacher

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EUROLAC
Lactation Consultant Practice
Centre for breastfeeding Information and Education
http://www.geocities.com/gonneke29/



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