In a message dated 7/29/02 7:18:38 PM, [log in to unmask] writes:

<< They generally feel guilty because someone
has told them their baby is starving or is going to grow up to be too
dependent. >>

First I repeat to them the signs of a well hydrated, well fed baby.
Wet/poopy diapers, happy 'drunk' looking baby at end of feed (unable to
handle ANY heavy equipment). Not crying inconsolably during the first week,
weight gain etc.  Then I tell them,  "I have never met anybody who ended up
in therapy  because they were breastfed/held/loved too much."  People seem to
like that one.  I also try to encourage them to listen to THEIR hearts and
THEIR babies because they probably know what is best.  If they meet with lots
of resistance I suggest they search out like-minded people and/or a good
breastfeeding support group.  I remind them their mothers followed their
doctors advice, which was to formula feed and now they are doing what the AAP
recommends.  And, I am sure THEIR mothers would have breastfed them had their
dr.s told them it was the best.  I talk about how parents want the best life
has to offer for their kids, breastfeeding is the best food for a healthy
start.  I could go on and on with my reasons to breastfeed!  Hope this helps!
Annie VerSteeg  IBCLC
Beach Area Breastfeeding
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breastfeeding... It's for life

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